Thanksgiving – Givingthanks

Thanksgiving or Givingthanks… which ever way you say it, I think it means the same thing. The word (phrase?) means so much more than just saying the word, “Thanks”. Have you ever received help or aid or support or guidance or other forms of unconditional love and friendship that are so huge, there are no words you can say to express your gratitude? A gratefulness so deep and strong, it can’t be sated or quelled by mere words? And even though you offer your sincere thanks to your benefactor(s), they mildly accept with words like, “You’re welcome.” or, “It’s nothing.” or, “No thanks necessary.” And you realize, it’s just not enough for you, that you have a driving need to do something in return. Kind of like the other -giving that we talk about, forgiving. Forgiving’s not about just saying, “I forgive you.”…that is a phrase that the other person may or may not receive… forgiveness is for you, and when you do forgive from within, a great burden is lifted off you. By the same token, saying, “thank you”, may or may not be received by the other person… taking action in thankfulness is for you, when you do [...]

Stuck in a Rut

Here’s a good question: “What’s in a color (belt) or rank?” The usual answer is “Whatever you place into it.” Whenever we have one of our rather infrequent promotion times, resulting in new ranks and (sometimes) new color belts, I often have thoughts about this topic rise up in me. So, if some of this sounds familiar, I’ve probably said this to many of you before… I just thought I’d finally put it down in writing. When I was in the Air Force, I recall that the professional officer corps had a ranking system that was a true pyramid. At the bottom were all of the young 2nd/1st Lieutenants and Captains. Then, as one went up the pyramid, there were far less Majors, Lt Colonels… even less Colonels and far fewer General officers. While this may seem a common sense arrangement to everybody, there are certain requirements in the system that are not apparent to those outside of the Services that act to whittle down the much larger base of incoming junior officers to those few who get to wear the star(s) of command. There is a certain amount of natural attrition within the military ranks (those like myself who [...]

Thoughts on Punching Bags

I sometimes get asked questions about the benefits of training with punching/kicking into a heavy bag. This is something I don’t really begin to share with students until they’re brown/black belts. As a result, most of the training over the first few years, involves “air” techniques, which, admittedly, do not prepare one for the experience of impact has on one’s fist or foot and does not allow one to measure the amount of force being projected into one’s target. Fortunately, unlike a boxing or kickboxing program, ministry members won’t be going into a ring anytime soon and be dependent upon the effective power of their techniques in order to survive the rounds or win the fight. In fact, the Do encourages us not to seek out such competition or resolve potential conflicts amiably, if at all possible. Still, there’s the chance that one may end up in a real-life situation one day that would require the most efficient application of martial techniques to maximize the chances of a positive outcome. Briefly, my opinions on the pros and cons of early/frequent practice into a heavy bag…The Pros: 1) Very quickly, you can measure how hard you are punching/kicking. 2) You learn [...]