The Ring
Some of you may know that my dad, while enjoying a good quality of life, made the tough decision several months ago, to move into a small private care home. We all feel a lot better, now that he always has people nearby who can help him, should anything happen, day or night. They’re definitely an extended family for him. As a part of this life-change, we had to clear out the mementos and belongings acquired over the 46 years that dad had lived in his home. My dad belongs to that generation of Nisei fathers who never had much to say. In fact, I don’t think dad ever said a single word of affection or encouragement to me…. but I knew that he was always there to support me if I ever needed help. So I was very surprised one day, shortly before he was to leave his house for a new phase of life, when he said, “Wes, go to the chest of drawers in my bedroom and get me my jade ring.” I knew which one it was, and that he only wore it on special occasions. Back in the 1960’s, one of my mom’s friends was [...]