So much can happen in a year
When my dad and I eat lunch every week, we spend time catching up on whatever happened over the past seven days since we last saw each other. I will often ask, “Anything new happening Dad?” His normal response is, “Nothing much…” Then he’ll go on to describe whatever little changes occurred over the week; a patient at Dialysis receiving a kidney transplant, a fellow resident recovering from pneumonia, the neighbor’s cat giving him a small scratch on the hand, the last batch of Fuji apples I got him were not as crunchy as he liked, and so on. Multiply that by 52 weeks, and you have a year in which “nothing much new happened.” And at 86 years old, that’s not so bad…a decent quality of life, no emergencies, a few small scratches, the old memory’s still holding up, appetite’s good, etc. Then, once in a great while, Dad will wax philosophically and think about the years 1977, 1997 and 2006, in particular. Those years stand out in his mind, as these mark major events in his autumn/winter years: in 1977, Mom unexpectedly passed away; in 1997, he suffered his first stroke; in 2006, he moved out of his [...]