A little family tradition
Let’s face it, one of the major legacies that one leaves behind after one is gone is…our offspring and their descendants. If you can pass on anything to them besides your DNA, you have the chance of beginning or continuing what, over time, becomes a real family tradition. One obstacle to continuing old family traditions in America is that the very process of immigration into the U.S. often meant that various traditions were lost or cut off in the huge move to this country. This is especially true when one considers the language barrier between our grandparents from the “old country” and the third, fourth, and later generations. The fact that our first generation (Issei) Japanese/Okinawan forebears came from a culture that didn’t talk much, coupled with our Nisei parents becoming “Americanized” within one generation, and the flow of information and tradition naturally trickles down to nothing. I can’t tell you how many hours I have questioned my dad about our family history over the years, and how many times he’s said, “I don’t really know, my parents didn’t say much and I never thought to ask.” I’ve mentioned before that the one tradition my dad passed down to me [...]